A dream where we come together as naked souls—living authentically, speaking our truths, and looking within to uncover the blocks that hold us back from love. To be a naked soul is to live in alignment with your soul’s calling, shedding the layers of conditioning and trauma that disconnect us from our true essence. It’s about taking off the masks, facing our fears, and living from a place of radical authenticity and erotic sovereignty.
NAKED Soul Haven is not just a space for content; it’s a global tribe of NAKED souls and pleasure activists, where self-love, truth, and pleasure empower us into embodied action. Right now, across the globe, millions of souls are birthing new ways of living, creating new communities, and co-creating a more harmonious civilisation. We are in the midst of a radical shift in consciousness, and this sacred space is for those who are ready to go inward, transform from the inside out, and reconnect with the guru within.
We gather to create space for metamorphosis—a process that unfolds not in Chronos time (the ticking of the clock) but in Kairos time—the sacred, divine timing of transformation. Like a lily blooming or a butterfly emerging from its cocoon, this is a journey of patience, trust, and surrender to the rhythm of life.
This haven is not another place for information or links—it’s not Facebook. It’s a sanctuary for the soul, where we come together with a shared intention to live authentically, love fiercely, and rise together as love. NAKED Soul Haven welcomes all genders and sexual orientations, supporting each of us in reclaiming our power, pleasure, and authenticity.
NAKED Soul Haven is a sanctuary for deep inner work, rest, and authentic transformation. As you walk the NAKED path, you are invited to explore themes that naturally arise when we soften our defenses and step into vulnerability: self-love, pleasure, healing, sovereignty, and more. Together, we create a space for active engagement and real transformation—not passive consumption. Here, we don’t just talk about change; we embody it.
Inside NAKED Soul Haven, you’ll find the support and tools you need to deepen your understanding of the NAKED Soul life and we will explore and share the practices online that we usually share together with those who attend our retreats, temples, workshops and festivals. This space is designed to help us stay connected, integrated, engaged, and growing as part of a global tribe of like-hearted souls.
Once you’re inside, you’ll have access to:
The access point into NAKED Soul Haven is via a pleasure portal of commitment to yourself through the 'soul of pleasure' 30-Day LIVE online guided process with Simon. This immersive experience is the gateway to our Haven, offering practices to awaken your life force, reconnect with your body, and align with your authentic self.
To dive in, here’s what you need to know:
Join the 30-Day 'soul of pleasure' Journey
For a one-time investment of €222, you’ll gain full access to the 'soul of pleasure' journey, including 4 LIVE group calls (which all souls attend) and daily choreographies designed to help you embody self-love and pleasure.
If needed, you can also explore alternative payment options through our Gift Culture form - read more below.
Transition into the NAKED Soul Haven Community
After completing the 30-day journey, you’ll be invited to continue your pilgrimage by joining the NAKED Soul Haven community through one of our monthly membership tiers. However, if you prefer to enjoy 'soul of pleasure' as a powerful standalone experience, that’s perfectly fine too. You can choose to close your account after the 30 days if you’re not drawn to ongoing online activities. 'soul of pleasure' itself offers immense value and personal transformation.
AFTER YOU HAVE COMPLETED 30 Days soul of pleasure you can join NAKED Soul Haven.
All the membership tiers offer the same access. In the spirit of Gift Culture and Ubuntu, we have different contribution levels based on what you feel able to give from your heart:
Each tier provides full access to everything NAKED Soul Haven offers, from monthly events and guest speakers, live group coaching, practice sessions, sharing circles, & open mics, to a global network of like-hearted souls in the process of metamorphosis.
No matter which tier you choose, your contribution helps sustain the space and ensures it remains accessible to others who may have fewer resources. By supporting each other in this way, we practice Ubuntu—"I am because we are." Your membership isn’t just a transaction; it’s part of the collective energy that allows this community to thrive.
In NAKED Soul Haven, we believe that giving is a powerful force for transformation. That’s why we embrace Gift Culture and the philosophy of Ubuntu. This journey isn’t just about an exchange of money; it’s about tapping into the flow of generosity, where we honor our interconnectedness and recognise that by giving from the heart, we sustain and uplift each other. This act of giving creates a ripple effect, like the "pay it forward" movement, where generosity begets more generosity, impacting not just our immediate community but the world at large.
Gift Culture invites us to give and receive in alignment with the value we feel from the experience. It’s not about what we have to give, but what we are inspired to offer after reflecting on what we’ve received. Often, this sense of value and gratitude deepens after the journey is complete, allowing us to contribute in meaningful ways—whether through financial offerings, time, skills, or energy. The more we give, the more we open ourselves to receiving in return, creating a flow of abundance that enriches us all. Imagine!
If the €222 financial contribution is beyond your means at this time, you’re invited to fill out our Gift Culture form and offer an alternative exchange. The most important commitment is your dedication to fully showing up for yourself and the community.
And if you’ve made the initial investment for 'soul of pleasure,' the invitation to give always remains open. You can lovingly choose to give more if the experience has touched you deeply, or contribute in other ways that reflect your unique gifts and resources. This is about building a continuous giving chain, where generosity circulates and sustains the collective energy of the Haven and beyond.
In the spirit of Ubuntu and Gift Culture, your presence and participation are valued equally—because when we give from the heart, we create a ripple effect or butterfly effect that benefits everyone.
This question lies at the heart of our journey in NAKED Soul Haven. After a decade of guiding souls through NAKED Retreats, I’ve come to understand that one of the greatest struggles we all face is our relationship with self-worth, self-image, and the trauma surrounding our sexuality. These core wounds—deeply tied to cultural conditioning, religious indoctrination, and societal taboos—are carried in our bodies. Many of us have experienced shame, violation, or distortion in our exploration of sexuality, and this pain runs deep.
Self-love is the foundation of transformation, and through the practice of self-pleasure, we confront the resistance, false beliefs, and shame around desire, pleasure, and self-expression. 'soul of pleasure' invites you to go on this curious, playFULL inner journey with yourself first. It’s about learning to love all of you, to uncover what we truly want, what is consensual, and what desires we want to explore. When we truly love and appreciate the body temple, this naturally enables us to love all of life as sacred. We witness all beings as temples, sacred sites to be in awe of. This shift into loving awareness impacts our relationship to absolutely everything; how we relate to ourselves and all beings, how we parent, work, create, the choices we make and the way we see reality. Imagine a species co-creating systems and civilisations from loving foundations. That's the power each of us possess when we choose LOVE.
'We don’t see things as they are; we see them as we are' ~ Anaïs Nin
Our bodies are pleasure instruments—wired for joy and sensation. Self-pleasure is not just about physical release; it is a path to uncover the blocks and barriers that stand in the way of love. Through this practice, we tap into the guru within and begin to love our NAKED selves in all their miraculous glory. We make peace with the parts we have judged or disliked and come home to the most essential relationship of all: the relationship with ourselves. To touch ourselves deeply is to be touched by life itself. As within so without.
Self love is a ReLOVEutionary act
The 30-day journey is an invitation to begin the process of metamorphosis. My own life was transformed during a 30-day Orgasmic Yoga practice as part of my training in Sexological Bodywork. It was there that I learned the depth of this practice—how dedicating time to self-pleasure as a meditation could rewire my relationship with my body, desire, and pleasure. It became clear that this wasn’t just a technique but a ritual of self-love that allowed me to access deeper levels of healing and transformation.
Why 30 days? Because transformation, the kind we are seeking, requires time. We are rewiring old programs, learning about our pleasure anatomy, exploring our pleasure thresholds, and giving ourselves permission to feel deserving of love. It takes consistent practice to uncover the layers of conditioning and resistance we’ve built up over the years.
Thirty days offers you the chance to plant the seed and experience the taste of this transformative practice. It is only the beginning—a starting point to explore your body, your pleasure, and the deeper work of healing and awakening. I can’t promise that 30 days will change your life forever, but it will give you the tools to reclaim your pleasure, realign with your truth, and reawaken the life force that flows through us all. For me, this journey has become a devotion that continues to this day—after more than 5 years and countless sessions, embodied practice for me is just needed as I deal with the challenges of life. I come fae to face with my resistance still today, I shut down, I get activated and regress into my traumas, and my pain-body shows up to remind me to open as love. And so I’m still discovering new layers of self-love and awakening.
And I would add the importance of repetition, how the more that I practice anything, the greater the gifts I uncover. More freedom, inner peace, joy, aliveness, the ability to respond not overreact. My capacity to allow emotion to move through, to feel, to truly feel. This is beyond words. There are so many benefits from loving ourselves with devotion. To take the time to simply slow down and be with ourselves. To get out of the way, and let transformation happen without forcing anything, It happens in the relaxation. LOVE remembers in the stillness of being. And these tools and methods are simply exercises, movements, touch and sounds to support us to remember our wholeness. In this present moment presence is pleasurable. So then, if you agree that our bodies are instruments of pleasure, why don't we let them sing their grand melodies while we 'trip the light fantastic'.
To know more of my story and 'why 30 days of self-pleasure' please read here on Medium or inside the Haven.
"This training has been one of the most profound experiences in my life. Before, I sought pleasure through quick fixes, relying on fantasies. Now, I don’t need fantasies—I’ve learned to slow down, connect deeply with my body, and follow her into pleasure. The journey hasn’t always been easy; it brought up old traumas and deep emotions that needed healing. But by staying committed to myself, I’ve reconnected with my yoni, healed numbness from past boundaries being crossed, and awakened my orgasmic energy. This isn’t a quick fix—it’s a transformative process of self-love, exploration, and healing. I am forever grateful."
— Vanessa
We invite you to join NAKED Soul Haven, a brave space of fierce love and transparency. Begin with 'soul of pleasure', your 30-day self-loving devotion, and step into a shared experience where we rise together as love, embodying the fullness of who we are.
The next opportunity to begin this self loving devotion opens on Monday, 11th November 2024, at 18:30 Portugal / UK
19:30 Europe, 14;30 EDT, 10:30 PDT (US) with an opening circle to connect and set intentions. The first day of your 30-day experience begins on Tuesday, 12th November.
Dates for weekly LIVE sessions will be Sundays 17th / 24th Nov - 1st / 8th Dec. All beginning at the same time 18:30 UK / Portugal. All relevant information, dates, and links to the Zoom calls will be provided in the welcome pages once you join. Start there and be ready for the opening circle!
In NAKED Soul Haven, we support each other not just with information, but with real connection, deep vulnerability, and a shared intention to transform from within. Together, we rise in wholeness, letting our souls shine brighter as we walk this path of self-love and awakening.
Together, we create, connect, and thrive. Are you ready to embody the NAKED Soul Life?
* If you have any questions don't hesitate to email; [email protected]
* Images: Erick Tejas